Sex Tips: Exhibitionist Role Playing

When it comes to role playing games, those with an exhibitionist slant can be very popular, especially among men. After all, men tend to be proud of their erect penises and the praise that they often desire for their members is to some extent exhibitionistic in nature. The following sex tips can help to incorporate some “showing off” into a couple’s sex lives. Of course, men need to be practicing good penis care to make sure that their members are in good health and ready to be presented in their best light.

A word of caution

Many people, both male and female, are seriously excited at the prospect of being a public exhibitionist. For some, this might entail a quick flash of genitalia. For others, going totally naked in a public place or engaging in sexual activity in front of others is what titillates them. However, unless such desires are fulfilled in a controlled situation among consenting adults, it runs the very real risk of breaking the law. The role playing scenarios below are intended to be performed in a private situation with the public limited only to the active participants.

Role playing

Most sex tips about role playing emphasize that the participants need to be in agreement about the parameters they are setting. Before beginning, partners should determine what they feel comfortable doing.

– Shower. “Caught in the shower” scenarios, in which one partner walks in on the other in or just out of the bathtub, are very popular and quite easy to set up and run with. Some typical situations might include: a wife walks in on her husband who is masturbating while showering; a prospective house buyer stumbles upon the owner of the house as he is about to bathe; or a colleague takes a picture of her co-worker in the shower and threatens to blackmail him if he doesn’t masturbate in front of her.

– Psychiatrist. The male plays a patient of a female psychiatrist. Lying on the couch, he talks about his deep-seated desire to expose himself in front of others. The psychiatrist encourages him to go with his desires in the safety of the office.

– Classroom. Many men remember being embarrassed at school when a very noticeable erection caused their pants to poke out. In this scenario, the male pretends to be a high school student making a presentation in an excited state. The female is an understanding teacher who encourages him to release his boner so that he will be more comfortable and who then praises him as he demonstrates his skill with it.

– Truth or Dare. The female dares the male to strip naked and pose on a crowded street. He does so, and his partner takes on the roles of passers-by who stop, whistle, applaud, or otherwise show their appreciation of this man’s endowment.

– Copy room fun. The male is caught using the office copier to make pictures of his member. The female colleague who catches him wants him to show her what’s so special about his package. Soon the two are engaged in coupling, aware all the while that someone may walk in on them at any second.

Waking Your Inner Child

“But when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put my childish ways behind me.”… And now three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. The Bible: 1 Corinthians 13: 10 – 11, 13.

One day at a nudist beach a grown man took advantage of my innocence and took me into a new world. Within minutes my view on the world changed forever, and a sheet seemed to hurtle out of the sky with the words the end emblazoned on it. The youth I was before this event was lost somewhere back on the beach, and a new child rode his bike home.

Some years later I found myself strolling down an infamous street in a Sydney suburb called Kings Cross. With sleazy strip joints and street walking prostitutes and every form of pornography available to me, you can’t imagine a youth with money to spend and an appetite for adventure would find to much trouble entertaining himself. I didn’t. Within hours, I was being undressed by a pretty girl, who took great pleasure in showing me the delights offered by the female body.

Whilst I found both experiences enjoyable, I found no real solutions for my soul in either. In fact, after the molestation on the beach by a man who should have known not to abuse my trust, my experience in church was irrevocably changed. Suddenly I had not only lost my virginity and had my sexuality awakened, but the enormous guilt that came with me enjoying orgasm seemed to create a wedge between me and my God.

How was I to know that our inner child suddenly has to grow up in a flash to cope with this new situation? I hadn’t even heard of the term until over ten years after the initial event. I didn’t know that sex was a spiritual act. But I knew when I was a boy, that sex had definitely changed how I felt spiritually. And suddenly church didn’t seem to have the answers I was looking for.

I’d like to tell you here that I found all the answers you are looking for. And yes I can share that I have totally healed my inner child. But whether the answers I found to my grief and my confusion may not be what you are looking for. Because those answers are found in one name only. Jesus Christ.

Now if that name is a word that offends you in some way or represents a path you don’t want to follow, I can understand. Really, I can. I must have slept with two hundred women in my life looking for love. I have searched multi level marketing ideas, have been to the best seminars on self growth and read scores of books on recovery. When I searched for my answer, I truly left no stone un-turned. I looked everywhere, read everything I could find and listened to a lot of people. I tried drugs, pornography, religions, self help groups, counseling, and even churches. Nothing seemed to work for me. And that was the most annoying part, because I am a persistent little guy.

I wish I could share with you that repressed memory techniques worked for me. Or that I worked out all of my hurt through therapy, or through a healing process called disassociation. I wish I could sprinkle some magic potion over you, or use an incense that will soothe all your pain. I wish I could tell you that I found another god to worship and another faith that really worked for me. I have wished sometimes that I did go immerse myself in witchcraft as my dealings with it have always seemed to show me its powerful. But alas I stayed clear. I wish I could tell you eastern religion holds all the answers, and yet I have found no religious teaching under the sun works. The answer I found is in the Bible, His name is Jesus Christ and the principle of forgiveness the answer to all my hurt and pain.

The inner child: When I was a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child and I had the innocence of a child. Then one day in one incident, my childhood innocence was stripped away. There is a beauty in innocence and a blessing in being ignorant. I’ll admit having someone’s else put food on the table and provide money for clothes, education, and a roof over my head, is a whole lot easier then doing the work it takes myself. All of these things are taken for granted by a child. A child would simply die if left to their own devices in a room without its parent.

Being a parent, seems to be a big responsibility. You become responsible for another living thing, and this child of yours depends on you for such simple things as being fed, clothed and protected. They desire warmth, love and affection and are helpless if these basic emotions are denied them. A child like myself growing up who rarely sees his father, can’t do anything with the pain inside his chest that cries for the attention. A child who yearns for his father’s loving hands and touch can’t make his father work regular hours no matter how much he cries. A child whose father isn’t around anymore can’t bring this missing father back. And so the blessing of ignorance and innocence can in reality work against a child’s reasoning abilities.

The little boy you were at six, has memories that have lasted to now, and the little girl who wore pretty ribbons in her hair still exists today as a teenager or woman. Our memories are stored, whether good or bad, and each of them fires up with the simplest of triggers. Every time you were spanked. Every time you were praised, every time you did wrong, every time you were proud, every time your father shouted, every time your mother smiled at you. All of these images are in your head, and all of them make up a memory and all of those memories are what makes you into the person you are today. Your child, your little boy or girl remembers the pain, the good times and the bad, and that little child was making decisions back then to try their best to control different situations and problems it was faced with.

I chose to get very upset with my daddies long absences from home. My brother chose to be jealous of all the attention I got as a baby and saw fit to bash me up repeatably and violently. I chose to play up to get attention from my mother and father, and wore the consequences. My mother chose to smack me one day and say, “I don’t want your hugs Matthew, I want your obedience” and my little child took her for her word. From that day on I never hugged my mummy again. My father couldn’t control me, and I was different to the other children. I never admitted to being wrong and would never accept the blame for any of my actions. This insolence was my child pleading to be heard and listened too. My mother and father saw it as lack of respect.

I grew sick. I consciously brought sickness on by my will and tried to get attention, pity and love from my actions. Then one smart psychologist put a stop to that by working out my game. He told my mother that I only did it for attention.

I willingly pushed my father past explosion point until he belted me. My backside throbbed with pain. But I’d take all the beltings in the world for that little phrase my father always said beforehand. “Matthew, you know I love you. And you know I have to do this to make you behave properly.” Those words were so precious to me, and the attention in my room alone with my father was special to me. I had his un-divided attention in a family of four children. Of course I wanted that, but as a child that wasn’t the best way of getting affection. But I was a driven little child also, and once I’d set my sails and felt the wind, I wasn’t going to change direction by pulling down what was working.

Now what’s changed

Now I live restored to my former glory. I have taken what was my natural temperament and forgiven myself and others for all the abuses I have suffered and taken the responsibility for my own life. I love me for who I was created to be and by healing all of my memories in forgiveness, I have let go of the power they held over me. I have climbed the hill of victimhood and cast the ropes free.

I write to you dear survivors of sexual abuse with a new hope in my heart and with a new and restored me, and say in love, that you too can cast your ropes off one day. Come take my hand, and let me whisper hope into your ears and lead you into this paradise I have found. Come see the view from the mountain and smell the freshness of this pure air. Breath in the oxygen of creativity and experience the colors of this world in a new way. Come walk with me and feel my strength. Lean on me for support and know where I have been, you too can go. Trust in me. Follow me, and let me show you a better way. For the way is Love, the method is Forgiveness and my guide is the Way, the Truth and the creator of all Life, Jesus Christ..

A prayer of healing:

( I encourage each of you to pray this simple petition ) Please take me as I am. I am a person who likes to believe and one who has feelings like the rest. Please take the time to understand my pain before you try and mend my wounds. Be patient with me. Help me to see the truth you share freely. Open up my eyes, so that I can see the answers. Thank you.

My prayer for you: Please accept this prayer of healing Jesus. Accept this honest plea from one who is hurting. Lead them into all knowledge and give them the answers they seek this day. I pray your blessing upon their life. Amen.

Another incest victim sees her child this way. Today five years hence her site isn’t at the old address I had.

little girl

As hard as this is to admit, there is still a little girl of ten trapped inside me. I don’t know how it is or how it came to be but I know she is still there. It’s the ten-year old in me who is still fearful at times, who is still plagued with phobias.

Yes, I grew and matured on the outside as well as on the inside, I have come a long way. But… until I claim that girl as me, as one with myself, I will always be faced with the demons that have plagued me since then.

Sex Stories – Tips For a Great Swinging Couples Party

You’re no stranger to block parties and birthdays, but now you’re looking to throw a party with a little more of an adult theme? For wild couples, swing parties can be fun for an anniversary or special birthday, or they can be great events for you to organize regularly. So what do you have to consider? As in all sex stories, what’s important are the fundamentals:

Where to Have your Party

Your own home is your best bet for your party as a new host. You might be tempted to hold a party outside in warm weather- lots of space, beautiful scenery and easy cleanup. But this isn’t wise unless you live VERY far away from your neighbors.
You may think a high fence or tall trees provide privacy, but even if your neighbors can’t see you, they can still hear you! This can result in a complaint and an unfortunate police visit.
Attempts to hide your party attendees’ sounds with loud music won’t work. Those bright colorful lights you’ll see aren’t festive decorations, but police cars out front.
All this considered, it’s best to keep the action inside when you start out. If you’re a real beginner, you’ll also want to attend a few swing parties before trying to host your own.
Sometimes people consider hosting as an easy way to make some money, but like most plans for fast money, it’s not as simple as it looks. It’s important to plan your parties well, and you’re not hosting a spectator sport. In order to get along with your guests and have a good party, you should be into swinging yourself.

The Guest List

In the beginning you should invite people you know from other swingers’ parties and groups. You’ll want to get more comfortable with hosting and more familiar with swinging before you let strangers show up.
Saturday night’s alright for swinging- people tend to be too tired to get into it at the end of the week on Friday. It’s a good idea to start promoting your party about a month in advance, and encourage people to bring people they actually know, but not friends of friends.
Make this rule very clear: couples only!! Single men often try to crash to take advantage of what they imagine is just one big orgy- that’s not what this is about. Single men or women can cause jealousies and complications. Limiting your guest list to couples allows everyone to relax and enjoy themselves.

What to Serve your Guests

It’s illegal to sell alcohol without a liquor license so you can’t charge for alcohol or you could be arrested. Instead, charge a fee per couple to attend and give away the food and liquor. $30 per couple is a standard charge, or you can charge a smaller fee and make it BYOB.
One of the first things you should establish is how many couples you can accommodate, depending on space, your comfort, and the energy you want your party to have. You can overbook by 50% because a lot of people may not show up.
Require that people RSVP by e-mail. This way, you’ll have the e-mails of all the people who are attending so you can send them the time, date and location of the party, along with rules and any fun details of a theme if you’re having one (these are common at swing parties.)

Speaking of Rules…

You should say up front whether you’ll allow smoking and any kind of cameras/documentation. These can make some guests uncomfortable, so they should know what they’re getting into.
Make it clear that the party is supposed to be fun and safe for everyone, and you won’t tolerate drunkenness or fighting.
Also, all activities will be completely consensual and no one will have to participate in anything they aren’t comfortable with.

Use these simple guidelines and you’ll have your guests coming again and again!

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Sex Ed in the Sixties

I was recently doing a search in Google to find a website that would confirm my suspicions about a Tele-huckster–a pet peeve of mine to which I am hopelessly addicted. One thing led to another and, yada yada yada, before I knew it, my flat screen monitor began flashing a string of sexually explicit pictures in brilliant pulsating color. It was an X-rated pop-up extravaganza; one I was unable to keep up with. I clicked frantically trying to close one close-up invasion after another. The bombardment continued on until it ran its course, eventually reaching some kind of worldwide web adult abyss that even the internet could not crawl below.

As I cleaned up the dirty debris I so innocently spilled–well maybe not that innocently–I was struck by my good fortune. Thankfully, the internet came along decades after my early teen years. Had this stuff been around in the Sixties, I might still be squirreled away in my attic room to this day, trimming the hair on my palms while mumbling incoherently to my seeing-eye dog.

On the other hand, learning the whereabouts, general appearance and overall purpose of female parts would have been a heck of a lot easier, not to mention more timely. Instead, my sex education was really the collective result of a hit or miss operation. At the time it was torture, but I don’t know, there was something funny about it too. And it all started at my local summer recreation center, Carteret Park …


“What did Roy Rogers say to Dale Evans in the bedroom when the lights went out?” Mud Finnegan asked a rapt group of adolescent boys sitting around a long wooden table at our local summer hangout, Carteret Park. He was about twelve years old, a year older than I and several years older than most of the kids sitting on the benches–that was age-wise but he seemed a generation older than all us in every other way.

Mud looked around, working the table like a seasoned Catskill comedian. No one dared answered his question because it really wasn’t a question at all. It was an obvious lead-in to the punch line of another classic dirty joke; besides, no one had a clue as to the possible answer–no one that is except Moon Muller.

“I know!” Moon yelped in a lame attempt to impress the guys, as if he was really in the know.

“Shut up! You don’t know crap!” Fitzy snapped back, warning that one of his patented headlocks might be coming Moon’s way if he didn’t keep his big trap shut.

“Do too!” Moon fired back in a surprising show of bravado.

“Are you two f’in jerk-offs through?” Mud, as only Mud could do, used the “F” word with a certain artistic flair. He painted masterpieces with four letter words no differently than Monet did with colors from a pallet. Having regained the attention of his fickle audience, he continued to close the deal.

“Do you f’in dick heads want to hear the f’in joke or doncha?” His eyes got wide and kind of crazy looking, one eyebrow climbing higher than the other. Of course, we wanted to hear. Everyone settled down. He waited a moment, knowing timing was everything; then, delivered the goods.

“I’ll turn on my flashlight if you turn on your headlights.”

A flash of universal vacant thought swept across the sea of open jawed faces, like the eerie stillness before a tornado strikes, as our feeble brains scrambled to “get it”. Then, as if prompted by an audience monitor, an explosion of rip-roaring, doubled-over laughter swept around the table. Ah … Mud sure could bring it home. Making it all the more incredulous was that most of us struggled to understand the punch-line. But we knew enough to laugh because that always bought us time to figure it out.

Mud proudly acknowledged his success with a wide grin, while he waited for us to wipe the tears from our eyes, boogers from our noses and drool from our chins. He was on top of his game. Being the veteran performer he was, he launched into an encore with another doozey about some lost traveler asking some guy who is with a woman how far is “The Old Log Inn”; you can guess the answer. Another eruption of roaring, clueless laughter followed. Another tidbit of carnal information revealed.

That was my introductory class to sex education in the Sixties.
We weren’t taught concepts like “private parts”, and never heard of or cared much for formal words like “penis” or “breast” or “vagina”. Our language was narrow and practical; “logs” or “rods” and “headlights” or “cams” were all we knew or needed know to communicate with each other. Regarding “vagina”, only a few guys with older sisters had even the slightest notion of what that might be; most of us were under the delusion that girls had simply broken their logs off at birth; possibly by accident or through carelessness.

So all we had were Mud’s dirty jokes, and embellished stories of older sisters spied on or caught in some state of undress. It was all a forewarning of things to come. I mean we understood the direct symbolism of certain words to body parts and innately found the sophomoric humor in using such imagery in the context of a joke. But underneath it all we started to sense that there was more to this than met the eye, something sinister.

Sex Story: How to Craft a Great One

When it comes to sex, so much emphasis is placed on what people do. And for obvious reason. But what about what people say? Particularly for long-distance lovers, words become an important device for expressing themselves and connecting sexually. While men must focus on maintaining good penile health so that any visual materials they send aren’t alarming, and so that they will be able to perform once the lover is nearby, they should equally attend to their verbal abilities so they can please partners in the present with a tailored sex story.

Now, anyone can tell a sex story, but not everyone can tell a truly thrilling one. Below, men can find tips for telling a tale that stokes a lover’s passion. And, while this is certainly desired in the case of long-distance lovers, it can also be of benefit to those near and dear, spicing things up in the bedroom.

1. Learn what she likes (and doesn’t). Any man can tell a story about what he likes, and about what other women he’s been with have liked, but tailoring a story to a particular lover’s preferences and fantasies will make all the difference for her. So some explicit pre-conversation will be very helpful. Does she have any kinks or fetishes? What positions does she love? Does she like to be in control, to relinquish control or a combination of the two? What kind of foreplay really gets her going? Where are her hot spots, inside and out?

Once a man has the details, he can use them wisely throughout his story. He should be careful not to turn the story into a formulaic bullet-point list of her desires. Intersperse aspects of what she likes with what the story-teller craves – having made sure that she is comfortable with what he likes. Learning what she doesn’t like is just as important here.

2. Get into her pleasure. This is one of the most important general sex tips, not just a story-telling tip. But a story is going to be much better if a man not only “ticks the boxes” of a lady’s preferences, but actually gets into the idea of pleasuring her. This opens him up to more descriptive language, imagining her writhing, moaning, gasping and so on, and responding sexually himself to her reactions, describing how much he enjoys the pleasure his “character” is giving hers.

3. Interactive or monologue? Lovers can play around with different formats for story-telling. They may want to start off exchanging monologues about what they want to do and to have done to them. Then they can move to live chatting or speaking in which the primary story-teller is open to interjections and revisions from the other, or the two can take equal turns building the tale.

4. It’s all in the details. Telling a great sex story requires consistency and detail – imagine the way bodies are positioned throughout, and make reasonable transitions to other positions. Were her hands tied behind her back? If she’s going to use her hands on one’s member in the next scene, they need to be untied, for example. Breaking consistency can break the magic of a steamy tale.

5. Be realistic. The best sex story is realistic. If a man writes or says that the second he enters a woman, she climaxes, that’s not likely to titillate her because it’s not likely to happen in real life. Don’t write about crazy positions that her flexibility or one’s own strength would not facilitate. While it may seem like no big deal to portray ideals and wild fantasies, this could convey to her that a man wants or expects things she can’t deliver, and that’s not a sexy thought.

Many couples choose to supplement their verbal tales with risqué pictures, and that’s a great idea for people who trust one another. A good sex tip for guys in this vein is to be mindful to make their organs as presentable as possible so that their dick pics are appealing. Minding the condition of the skin is crucial here. A penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) with Shea butter and vitamin E will keep the skin moisturized, eliminated the common issues of dryness and flakiness. Plus, such a product will help minimize chafing, which is inevitable with all the cranking a man is likely to do while crafting and receiving hot sex stories.

Sex Stories – Could it Be the Climax to a Great Night’s Sleep?

Did you know that sex stories may be the answer to getting a good night’s sleep? Yup, that’s right sex stories. Sounds a heck of a lot better than Valium or elephant sized doses of sleepy time tea, doesn’t it? Sex has been proven to be a great sleep inducer and spicing up your sex life with sex stories can be a big help in getting the sleep you need. There is no argument that the restorative powers of sleep are needed for a healthy and happy lifestyle. Sex stories can help add to your sex life making the sex better as well as your sleep.

Not sleeping can be dangerous to your health, but using sex stories as a sex aid can help stem off the negative stimuli that causes us not to be able to sleep. Studies have shown that sleep deprivation can bring on serious disease such as dementia and Parkinson’s disease. Not to mention how it can generally mess up other things in your life like your work, family life relationships, etc. The key is to wind your body and brain down just before bed and sex is the perfect way to do that. Using sex stories can put your in the mood to have sex by exciting your mind and helping to reach a better and more satisfying orgasm. That is what puts you to sleep, the release.

Some may argue that reading sex stories would get your brain too excited and may not be the best way to get a good night’s slumber. Not true. As mentioned before, it’s the release in sex that brings the mind and body down into a restful satisfied state more conducive to deep sleep. Excitement before bed such as action movies or going for a jog or other exercise have negative effects on your sleep because the endorphin build up stimulates your brain without the benefit of release. This is what causes your brain to work overtime and diminishes your ability to fall asleep.

Sex stories definitely have a nice dual effect don’t they? Spicing up your sex life while enjoying a restful night’s sleep should sound pretty good to just about anyone! Sleep is so important to your health, so is sex, so this sleep remedy is a real winner! Sure is a lot more attractive than trips to the doctor, pharmacy or the health food store.

How Women Enjoy Eroticism Through Sex Stories

Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?

Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and read erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so much female erotica focuses on women’s bodies and sex between women.

No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male body parts, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica because I imagine myself on the receiving end of fellatio or anal sex, for example.

Female erotica often includes humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women’s sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling ‘dirty’ or guilty about their sexual urges?

I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just enjoy the eroticism of sexual activity without anyone being forced into anything against their will (not always but mostly).

I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so much out there I have read my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending pain. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism may get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.

It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to find sex stories for women that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder though… what else does anyone read this stuff for?

Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few women relate to her findings. This is because most women approach sex through their relationship with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their own sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have never discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.

I read Hite when I was twenty and I understood that clitoral stimulation was critical to female orgasm from masturbation. However, clitoral stimulation never seemed to help with my sexual arousal during sex with my partner. The fact is that even during female masturbation, clitoral stimulation only leads to orgasm when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.

Men have a fairly natural transition from masturbation to sex because they use images of naked women for arousal. Women do not use images of naked men during masturbation so it is more difficult for them to transfer their orgasm techniques including their use of sexual fantasies to sex with a partner.

Telling Sex Stories Can Lead to a Great Orgasm – Secrets to Dirty Talk Sex

Telling sexy stories and talking dirty in bed can lead to having better intercourse and ultimately a great orgasm. Using dirty talk is really a form of foreplay and by using it you can stimulate you partner and turn them on. Many people get into a routine and this can become boring and lead to a non exciting love life. You need to spice it up and telling each other sexy stories can be one great options to put you in the mood.

The first thing that you want to do is to find out what fantasies the other one has this way you can cater the story around that interest. Do not be afraid to try this new technique on each other because you need to try new things always to keep your love life fresh and interesting. Women like it when you talk softly in there ear so you may want to tell your sex story there so that they can fell you close to them.

It is important that when you are talking dirty that you also caress and message each other so that you can hear and feel the pleasure. Remember that when a woman is going to have an orgasm that it is very important that you have prolonged foreplay because they take longer than a man to climax. Never rush through your love making or foreplay because you need to enjoy this time and to get more intimate.

It is always best that when you are trying something new that you have all the information you can so that you can have a successful time with your partner in bed.


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Couples and Sexuality – Amp Up Your Sex Life This Summer by Cooling Down!

Would you like to beat the heat to enhance your sex life this summer? Extreme heat in the summer months can be a love repellant, especially when you feel hot and bothered or when the kids are up and around for more hours. This can create a challenge for you making love with your partner. Does this sound familiar? If so, read on for some solutions….

It’s a hot one this year! Keeping hydrated with clean water at all times is of the utmost importance for your health and your sex life, no matter what activities you do. Here are five fun and affordable ideas on keeping your love life hot while your body stays cool this summer:

Love tip 1: Pool party for two
Cool down in the water then heat things up! Float, relax, and break out the rafts and noodles; whatever floats your boat! Play some nice soft music while you dip. Taking a swim in your pool is a wonderful way to cool down and connect. Remember to flirt, hug, and smooch in the pool to amp things up. If you have a private pool, then skinny dipping can be very daring and arousing. Take your time- move slowly towards and away from each other playfully. Making love in the water is a fun way to share your passion while staying cool, especially at night when the temperature drops a bit. If you have kids, send them to Grandmas or your favorite sitter for the night!

Love tip 2: Romantic indoor picnic:
Buy or prepare some cool treats for the two of you- veggie platter, cold salads, fruits, cheeses or anything else chilled and easy that you enjoy eating together. Make some cold drinks such as spiked lemonade, Mojitos or Margaritas. Remember that alcohol dehydrates, so drink some extra water with your picnic dinner. Set up your picnic blanket in the middle of the room. Light some small candle jars around the room and set the mood. One or both of you can prepare the feast.

Feed each other slowly in-between kissing and teasing each other. Enjoy yourselves by candlelight. You can also enhance the mood with nature CDs such as ocean, forest, lake, or whatever you find most romantic. Tonight, make love in a different room, such as the living room on the picnic blanket. Focus on giving each other oral pleasure tonight, so each of you has a turn to lay back, relax, and stay cool while enjoying the bliss of orgasm!
Love tip 3: Romantic movie date:

This cool date can be at home or out. If you go out to the movies, find a very romantic movie out in the theaters. There is usually at least one each summer. Find a seat in the back of the theater. Hold hands! Steal a kiss or two. Whisper sweet something to each other about what you will do to each other later. Share some popcorn and chilled water while you enjoy the movie. Laugh, cry, and then go home to make love.

Love tip 4: Racy movie date:
If you are at home, rent or buy a racy movie. There is a company called Candida Royalle that offers some softer adult films with cheesy romantic story lines. One site you can get them at is Adam Eve. You can also find some harder core adult films on that site, depending on your tastes. You can have fun with these movies, giggle or reenact some of the scenes together. Try some different sexual positions tonight, such as woman on top facing away from the man. This allows for maximum air circulation and freedom to move in a way that pleases her. Don’t forget to reach around to stimulate her clitoris to send her into O-land! Remember to drink plenty of water, and top it off with ice cream or some fruit salad.

Love tip 5: Cool and Hot Shower Time:
Instead of taking a hot shower tonight, make the water lukewarm or on the cooler side. Bring some waterproof toys such as I rub my duckie or a waterproof vibrator. You can also use a movable shower head that has different speeds for some soapy fun! Spend time lathering each other up. Take your time and use a nice scented soap, such as mango, raspberry or lemon.

By the way, vibrators can be for him and her! Massage each others back and front areas, focusing first away from the genitals and then later to the genitals. To stimulate her, use circular motions with the vibrator around the labia and clitoris where most of the nerve endings are. Later, insert one or two fingers gently into her vaginal canal. She may be able to reach one, two, three or more orgasms this way in a row. To get him going, stimulate his penis with one hand and using the vibrator underneath his testicles. Ask for feedback to see how it feels. Some people like vibrators and some don’t. Experiment with different speeds. When you are done, rinse off and dry each other off and then fall asleep together. Turn on the ceiling fans for some extra breeze.

Tips For Dating Beautiful Women Guaranteed

Dating a beautiful woman is the goal of every man since middle school. As a youngster, men jump through hoops trying to impress the attractive members of the opposite sex. As young adults, men invest in everything to appear more appealing to women. The romance and conquest games played by young people change substantially as both sides age.

The whole dynamic changes as the man gets a little older, a little wiser and little less clueless about the opposite sex. Men stop judging themselves by the measuring stick of their significant others beauty. Instead they are focused on career, accomplishment and competing in the game of life. This makes them even more attractive to beautiful women who, among other things, find success very desirable. The beautiful young girl who had legions of pursuers panting after them is now finding herself competing with younger ladies.

This is the time for the older man to sit back and enjoy the role reversal. Although it appears that women want men to chase them, at the mature stage, the game changes and the men become the hunted and the attractive women become the hunters. Success implies that the men are good providers and can afford a lifestyle that the beautiful women crave. Expensive cars, meals, travel and jewelry are all trappings that attract women like moths to a flame.

Here are some ideas to attract beautiful women as an older successful man.

Don’t act like they are anything special.

Nothing irritates the beautiful woman more than not being the center of attention. If you act as if she is not the center of your attention you are going to make her wonder why you are the only one that isn’t fawning over her. The over-developed ego of the beautiful woman demands attention in every venue and screams that she is the most desirable and coveted female in any situation. Your ambivalence will drive her nuts, especially if you are displaying the qualities of an accomplished successful man.

Don’t chase her

Chasing her puts you right back in the pack with everyone else that is trying to catch her and will encourage her to keep you at arm’s length. If you get her number, don’t call her, don’t ask her out and don’t text her silly stuff asking about her day or what she is doing. If you run into her in a casual setting, tell her about your day, and more importantly, about your night. Let her understand that you are quite content being a successful interesting man and don’t need her.

Don’t flatter her

I am not suggesting you be mean, but for every compliment you give her, which should be few, make sure you point out areas in her life where she could improve. Her ego dictates that she has no flaws and is a queen to be treasured. Pointing out that she is not the perfect woman will cause her to look at you from a different perspective.

Don’t expect miracles

Are these ideas going to win her over every time? NO. In fact sometimes it can result in her ire and disdain being directed at you. But that result can happen no matter which course you take. Her typical dates are self-absorbed pretty boys who think they are as beautiful as she is. These men are as much arm candy to her as she is to them. If you can’t compete with them in terms of looks or physique level the playing field and let her realize that you are less flash and more substance. The personality challenged, shallow pretty boys and beautiful women are all vulnerable to playing with their over-inflated ego. Show her what she wants to see in the beginning. Success is a very attractive trait to a beautiful woman who wants a lifestyle but lacks the means to provide it for themselves.